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    The Controllables Worksheet

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    The
    Controllables
    Worksheet

    Build Confidence By Focusing On
    What You Can Control

    VOL. 04

    "Tough players focus on controllables.
    That's where confidence grows."

    What's Affecting Me?

    01
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    Date
    Opponent / Game

    Check what is affecting you right now:

    Identify the internal and external pressures affecting your mindset today. Recognizing these distractions is the first step to letting them go. Be honest with yourself—what is weighing you down right now?

    What is affecting you the most today?

    Control Check

    Every worry drains your energy. Ask yourself if you have direct control over it. If you do, make an immediate action plan. If you don't, you must write it down and intentionally let it go before you compete.

    What are you worried about right now?
    Can you control it?
    If YES, what action can you take?
    If NO, write it down and let it go.
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    My Focus

    02

    My Self-Talk

    Your internal dialogue dictates your confidence. Identify the negative thoughts holding you back and intentionally rewrite them into powerful, action-oriented statements you can repeat to yourself. Example: Negative: "What if I lose?" → Replacement: "I've prepared for this. Now compete."

    What negative thought has been showing up lately?
    Replace it with a stronger thought:

    Things I Can Control

    Rate yourself today on a scale of 1-5 (1 = Poor, 5 = Elite). Be brutally honest with yourself about where your effort, attitude, and focus currently stand. This is where true confidence is built.

    Effort
    How can I give 1% more effort today?
    Attitude
    Is my attitude helping or hurting me?
    Preparation
    What is my focus during warmups?
    Body Language
    What does my body language say right now?
    Focus
    What is my focal point during the game?
    Response To Mistakes
    How will I respond after making an error or striking out?
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    Commitment

    03

    Things I Cannot Control

    Cross out the things below that are completely outside of your control. Spending energy on these will only drain your confidence and distract you from executing your game plan.

    What do you need to let go of today?

    My Game Commitment

    Choose ONE specific controllable from the list above to focus your entire energy on today. When adversity hits, this is what you will fall back on:

    The ONE thing I will focus on today is:

    Note To Myself

    Write a final reminder to yourself before you step into competition. What is the mindset you need to carry with you? (e.g., Trust my training. One pitch at a time. Stay present.)

    Tough players focus on controllables.

    That's where confidence grows.

    Signature
    Date

    "Coach Dee has helped Layla build the confidence she needs to compete at a high level. More importantly, she has learned that she is so much more than just a softball player. The mental game matters. Confidence matters. Believing in yourself matters."

    — Layla's ParentsSoftball Parents
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